The abandon alcohol and thus served up on Sunday with a hangover in the morning instead of something analgesia and hectoliters of water, Zygmunt Bauman lecture. Professor focused here on the theme of loneliness the internet, or rather the theme of the close of all of us, especially those with an account on Facebook or similar social networking sites.
Bauman presented some rather shocking results and examples. Namely, 3 in 4 U.S. teens spend their free every minute on online interactions (studies professor. Zimmerman'a from NYU.) However, some girl has sent three thousand. mails during the month, which means about 100 messages a day. After deducting time to sleep it turned out that on average it sends a message every 10 minutes, even during classes at school. Hence? ' probably never spent time only for myself: on my own hopes, fears, dreams (...) She probably lives, thoughts, tears and laughs only in the company of other , forgot what it looks like only your own company. She had no chance to learn to reside solely with each other '.
What real relationship (as far as she grows up something like this will continue to be in fashion) will be able to create such a body cast ? But no matter how trivial it sounds, but the key to being with someone is the ability to be alone. Sometimes it's hard for me to understand why ' few who sees the loneliness as a privilege, almost all see it as loneliness and yearning for companionship. " After all, this recipe for toxic relationships or shallower Internet connections. fact that both see a large scale among the colleagues that have had time to leave the yard lick reinforces my concern as this issue will look younger generation.
Bauman is concerned that according to the law of Copernicus where counterfeiting coin from circulation displaces the real, on-line relationships will supplant real communication. In total, it is now, when most of the time spent talking with friends is through the Internet or other media.
is important to some specific characteristics of virtual communication , which affects its popularity, while painting a pessimistic scenario . Namely:
1) due to Facebook chat, Skype and other such inventions disappeared risk that they will ever . It is always a false sense of, in the form of green dots or other character, that someone is online, we're surrounded by friends. ' seven days a week, you can press the button and suddenly appears illusory mirage societies that menace away in solitude. It seems that there is always someone at our beck and call. Even if a virtual friend, leave the screen and go to sleep, it will replace other friends '. And here comes the paranoia, for example when someone is having a Friends 800-1000 on FB there is nobody to spend the night in the real world, and to discuss on the chat a queue. Therefore, I decided to limit his Internet stable up to 500 people. The result is that often adds a few units and at the same time I delete several at once. Already more than once occurred to me to be situations where someone had me on friends, and did not recognize on the street. What is the meaning of sharing your life such a person? Similar things are the units that I've seen once or acquaintances, friends or people from elementary school who passionately are sending the invitation despite the fact that even if we were not good friends, and now see me as another person to his Facebookowej collection of 'friends'.
2) knowledge of the Internet are contacts without obligation. Compared to fat-free butter or non-alcoholic beer. Something does not fit you click Spam, Delete, or Block and the case. Nobody yet you did not commit a certain amount like'ów, comments or links at another person. No need to compromise, and even birthday reminders automatically. Sometimes even faster and easier, because you can arrange a so-called. bootie call although it probably should now be called bootie chat with impunity and then you can prevent a person making him / her a disposable unit ( sic ).
Naturally, as it happens to me, conclusions or not morału . Everyone should ask themselves is how much a subject to him speak, and do you really need is someone zafrendowanie of the known yesterday in a queue for toilets, bar, cloakroom, entry in the club. At the same time you are cordially invited to watch the lecture here or you find the pieces of it in March, pełnowydaniowym, number High Heels. also note that by clicking on the title of scraps vectors to the song on YouTube - now Aloe Blacc phenomenal live !
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