There are topics on the scraps that walk behind me hours, days, weeks or even months. often saves them in the form of short ideas (usually in the notepad on the phone) and then countless times you try to arrange their content in the head. Often, however, to no avail.
Yes, and this was also a note. Telephone records were my reactions to the bittersweet human behavior, which occurred to me to watch. But only after reading an interview with psychotherapist Malgorzata Kozlowska Liszyk-in yesterday high heels, I realized that I've discovered the missing piece we needed to move this to the important topic association symbiosis.
Together with her friend often wring their hands looking at the behavior and approach to life, especially to men who represent us closer and more women. Namely the fact that many girls can not see the fulfillment outside the relationship. If you are alone, they are unhappy and it's a very simple reason that the ideal of dangerous compound called . two missing halves, which punished them to believe that only with a partner make a whole. What somewhat freely translated translates into a feeling that he defines their existence.
Naturally, such an approach will frighten every decent person, including many women and we do - all self-sufficient women - poor union relations. To the extent that a single quoted in an interview he says: 'I would have ever such a woman that once we approach the weekend, I will not be sure that she wants to spend it with me '. Frankly I understand this guy 100%. For me, one of the key attributes, which must meet my potential partner is a fact that has me excited, impressed me. And if all we do together is there is a chance that this excitement will pass with the wind. Moreover, ML-K words ' paradoxically, the greater is our consensus that the partner has its own piece of the world, the more attractive they become for us being together '. Something like a Venn diagram,
where A and B I are You, and My C. It is only then we associate with the real, hopefully developed, individualist and not a man tick / hub, with which resembles the relationship stuck landrynka.
Naturally this kind of approach to men is not taken nowhere and is also among the males, but high in the merit cultural patterns and social , especially those emerging from the house. Liszyk-Kozlowska brings all these tales, in which women are waiting for their knights, who would liberate them from the misery and lay their lives. Also, the Polish language itself is not free from expressions like 'catch husband' or 'keep guy', which produce sweat on men's winter ends.
incredibly sad for me is watching young, beautiful women who continue to live in the belief that man determines their value. They pass from one compound to another, from one of unrequited love to the next, from Fatal Attraction number 1 to n. In addition entering into a relationship without being aware of their needs, in search of unconditional love brings to mind a blind person walking through a minefield. There is a big chance that your heart every few steps there will be in pieces.
remedy to these problems is to learn the operation itself, or for those dependent on the method rather Society drastic. As too often happens that girls' from the tutelage of their parents came directly under the tutelage of partner. Had not managed to convince themselves how they work, learn what they can 'and for this cause they consider that alone are worth much less than being one.
worst, however, is when a person who likes to stick to your partner throws himself into play and one night stands, which have a pact not for everyone, especially not for people who can not control their emotions and live a happy singles. The so-called. she's not the type of girl who can hoop up with somebody , but since we are already something of himself knows this better not to play this game, I guarantee he will be racing in humans, but this may be another time.
Stage Five Clinger - A member of the opposite sex That Is Likely to become overly attached, overly fast. Virgins, Those on the rebound, and the emotionally fragile are more Likely to have this term applied to Them. Orignally from the movie Wedding Crashers
